@moth_ball Maybe a helpful idea could be that you are not a single vector. You are many many things (aspects of yourself) evolving in different directions at the same time. With this in mind, it’s easier to think about relating to others. You don’t need to always seek fully like-minded souls. What you need is to find souls which are aligned along some of the vectors you are evolving along too. And that is easier. And I’d also say also more enriching: all the non-aligned directions of the other one (be it a friend, partner, colleague, etc.) become things to learn from - as far as the few mutually aligned directions are the important ones. I don’t care for finding soul-mates to be “one” with. I seek equal partners to share the world with.