@ezmyrelda You mentioned that you like calling out people... like this?

Including a direct link since some people don't see my quotes: qoto.org/@admitsWrongIfProven/

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@waltercool Hmm, trying to understand this. So you are feeling threatened by men that have notable body hair? Don't feel down! It's ok if you ...
@admitsWrongIfProven Haha, yes similar but I don't know where you got that from. I try not to do it on mastodon/fediverse because it's sort of.. how do I put this... Also being an asshole.. and the effect you want rarely happens.

So I try to be positive and non-contentious these days..

@ezmyrelda Understandable, i also lowered my combativeness. Mainly because i think i'll be happier by accepting humanity is a loss than fighting it.

Where i got it from is because i scrolled federated, you know procrastination because i can't settle on a movie for the night (1 am here, maybe i should just sleep ^^).

But in the end, i just can't resist posing a choice to obviously insecure people. In an RPG, i'd probably be the third door guard that always goofs around :-)

@admitsWrongIfProven hrmm.. I honestly wonder what the context was.. I can't remember mentioning it on fedi.. I got banned from twitter for doing just that..

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@ezmyrelda Wait, obviously you did not, so here goes: Just this picture, no description.

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@admitsWrongIfProven yeah, I saw.. I hate a hate campaign directed at me by such people on the fediverse a few weeks back.

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@ezmyrelda I try to not fight, but if you have some haters, let me know. Easier to point out peoples failings if one is not the target.

Can't promise i will be online, or have anything good, but i'd enjoy being asked to help.

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@admitsWrongIfProven oh, no.. I've defederated from all the instances of bigotry and fascism that were on the attack. Nothing more need be done.
@admitsWrongIfProven I appreciate the offer but it's usually just best to block and move on.. defederation only if necessary.. but some are.. 🪷

@ezmyrelda Yeah, i guess if mastodon.social sprouts those types and they aren't moderated we have other problems.

@admitsWrongIfProven indeed.. handling medium size instances is pretty easy but I would hate to moderate one of the larger sites.

@ezmyrelda I look to big instances with an uneasy feeling.
The power of mastodon is to not be monetized. That's the one important thing that sets it as a useful tool to talk to people.
A big instance, so big it would collapse everything if it were removed... banking crisis? housing crisis? All the monopolies are just single points of failure. And what i heard of the big instance was not always good, no benevolent dictator there. I really hope this goes on without catastrophic failure.

@admitsWrongIfProven Agreed. I usually only interact with a handful of instances.. and a lot of single user instances.

@ezmyrelda Generally, even if i have zero gender dysphoria, i'm internally debating to "gender non compliant" myself. The hardware is fine, but the gender roles... not my thing. Saw something about "just want to be seen as a human" in your feed, kinda vibed with that. Even if my experience is probably way easier.

@admitsWrongIfProven yeah, we are seeing a huge upheaval with how we look at our gender roles in society coupled with a return to understanding of trans identity.. interesting times.

@ezmyrelda It's pretty weird. Good things happen in small circles, but catastrophic things happen in the more general sense.

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