@kalfatermann I would make your evening just as enjoyable, but the question i meant to ask is "why do all we nice and not dumb people find no way to stop hateful people from doing harm".

So, did you also wreck your brain on this or would that be new to you?

In any case, thx for being nice, that is always a good thing.

@admitsWrongIfProven

I have often asked myself these and similar questions. Somehow, I always end up with a headache from thinking about it.

How can you fill a barrel that has no bottom, but which absolutely must be filled in order to give it stability?

P.S.: Thanks, but no thanks. I am simply me, and I have many faults. My biggest fault is that I love to learn and thus discover all the things I don't know yet.

@kalfatermann "no thanks" to "you are nice"?

Anyways, the answer is Kölsch. You take a smaller glass and now there is less to be swallowed...

I think we should find a way to shrink the harmful elements. Maybe we could teach each other to ignore what is bad (as in who is doing harm), as a variation of everyone being told to ignore what is bad (as in going along with whatever is bad)?

Where do you stand on telling someone evil "you don't matter", as opposed to "you are doing bad stuff"?

@admitsWrongIfProven

Exactly, I am not nice, just a little mice. 😇

When you tell someone: “you don't matter” you take away their opportunity to be relevant, which then results in a defensive reaction.

If you tell someone: "you are doing bad stuff" you give them the chance to explain and justify themselves. A dialogue, even if it is a difficult one, can lead to reflection. However, this can be extremely exhausting, and you don't always have the nerves for it.