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@LeslieBurns Never marry, got it.

@OpenComputeDesign So you say nothing happened, then she told cps she tried to hang herself, and you heard nothing from her?

Come on...

@OpenComputeDesign Another way of saying this:
If you had not been wronged, how can it be you cannot talk about it?

Your demeanor is that of a dependant. You dance around everything, you never ascertain anything. You don't get that way if your parents or surroundings are not abusive.

Do you value truth? Say what happened, as it is.

@OpenComputeDesign Your own fate should tell you everything you need to know about what saying stuff one should not say can do. Still, i see no reason to trust your parents over your sister.

If it is hard for you to give me this information, might that validate your sisters suit? What does your trouble of talking about this say about it?

Should a person not be able to express their thoughts?

@OpenComputeDesign So, what kind of stuff? Saying stuff he should not have, like "Ass" or "fuck", or slight physical discipline, like lightly spanking the butt? Or sexual abuse, inserting his whatchamacallit?

@OpenComputeDesign Your not well adjusted self paints this as a lie. If there was no trouble, you would easily dismiss this, worry about what your never close sister does, and live on without much trouble.

Is it that much more trouble to admit what has been done to you than lying about nothing being wrong?

After all, if nothing was wrong, we never would have started talking.

Do you think the crime done would shake me?

@OpenComputeDesign There is a wtf-sized gap in this.
If your parents should not be jailed, what did they do that reasonably makes your sister want to break free but unable?

@OpenComputeDesign I know little about what is going on, but if your sis has a court case against your parents... what is your stance? And for what reason?

@OpenComputeDesign maybe you should take the time to listen next time. She surely can tell you more than i ever could.

Consider this: if i convinced you the world was a pig running around a skatepark, and your sister told you she buffed her toe, what would be more important?

Whatever happens, be a nice older brother. Whatever has been done to you, if she runs away, she can lead the way.

@OpenComputeDesign After all, you cannot let go of something you don't see.

@OpenComputeDesign Dude, you are a beacon of "this is not ok". You might cope, but that is just because you are great. Does not mean anyone else should go through that.

List what has been done to you. You'll need that list to work through when you come back from the denial.

Keep checking what changes, the list might be confusing :-)

@OpenComputeDesign Who would consider you a witness? It sounds a bit like a court hearing, is there legal action?

@godpod Funny. Would be so much funnier if we caught the real god so it could answer for its crimes ^^

@OpenComputeDesign Another take: you thought she would move out "normally". Why? If someone is - by what you say - desperate. what makes you think it is "normal"?

I sure did not need to clear out from my parents urgently. All that you describe points toward her being the only one with any sense in your family.

What is it that your parents do that drives people away?

@OpenComputeDesign If she did this, there are two possibilities. She might be insane and doing damage by lashing out, without reason.
Or there might be a reason that is not easily understood.

Dude, just be there for her. I don't think someone that cared for you would rampage and destroy...

@OpenComputeDesign Dude, i checked back, you did not reveal anything relevant.
Did you consider the possibility that your parents might be shitty people? Or did your sis run away because running is healthy?

https://linuxrocks.online/@OpenComputeDesign/113675932858795289
@OpenComputeDesign lol. you posted about the same as i just said ^^

@OpenComputeDesign No, and it is quite heavy on me needing context. What happened? Parent fuckup, or did you manage to actually do something that modifies the world around?

@OpenComputeDesign Since i found you again, so, how's stuff going?

@OpenComputeDesign Implied stuff:
Tech is an accumulation of humans working together. If humans working together is worse then me going out and doing it myself, something is off.