Recently got the compliment that I was able to create an atmosphere of a good time at a party, which the person only knew to be achievable with #alcohol. They tried to excuse the achievement with certain innate characteristics that one should possess.

In the past, I fancied the ability to do such and learnt that it is not just as easy as getting the specific characteristics. Instead it is a set of circumstances that need to be present plus the characteristics to achieve the atmosphere of a good time.

Just because one has the spark to light a fire, doesn't mean it will persist, one also needs the correct tinder.

#CharacterGrowth