@mangeurdenuage while i usually also just wear cargo pants and stuff (i can't go anywhere anyways because of the covid), it's really disturbing how people just don't care anymore. i'm usually the only one who cares to put on a suit and tie for funerals, birthday brunches for someone turned 80, weddings. people just show up in jeans and a sweater. i mean, at least at a funeral you'd expect some effort in honour of the dead.