@dusnm i've heard too much and was given too much bullshit by woke women in the last ~15 years. mind that i visited an university during that time, but this stuff tends to seep through a society. just look at the current german government.

you have the by now totally crazy gender shit which effectively reverses "girls/boys/humans can do what they want!" into "girls pink, boys blue, better choose quick now!".

equal rights morphed into a sense of entitlement combined with that the sexes shouldn't trust each other. you can't expect to have relationships if you start out by complete mistrust and seeking to maximize your "winnings".

my theory is that it's the progressive agenda turning morale and taboos upside down under the guise of equal rights which is additionally accelerated by technology (made by progressives..) like dating apps which are only made for quick sexual contacts. it's honestly no surprise that so many people are mentally ill. it's the sane choice for a brain under these circumstances.

i don't think that all of the old taboos are good. what is happening currently is just completely insane though. it isn't about individual freedom anymore, it's about increasing debauchery to the breaking point.

so, to answer the question what do you consider sane and nice, just random selection

https://invidious.snopyta.org/watch?v=1wTPwaehusw

https://invidious.snopyta.org/watch?v=-RJdxcMRhas

do i think _everything_ they say is right? of course not. after all, maybe it's a psyop to calm down people!

@bonifartius I have a somewhat different perspective. I believe that there is a serious problem in communication between people, regardless of gender. People no longer listen to each other. People can be pretty shallow, all things considered. Looks do matter, maybe not entirely, but initially they make a significant difference. Now, instead of turning rejection into resentment I choose to not associate with shallow people in the first place.