@Sharondee Hello!
You can find a lot of details about this instance and the services we offer at https://qoto.org/about/more
I would quote a paragraph that is relevant, it's in the "Rules" section of that page.
"We are all adults here, act like it. Despite our belief in freedom of expression (free speech) we want to create a space where people are respectful to each other. Don't disrespect people; if they disrespect you then block them and move on. If we get a report on one of our users then an administrator will reach out to the parties involved and try to mediate a peaceful resolution. We will talk it through like mature adults. Lets remember there is a person at the other end of the screen, if we can be mature in real life we can do it here too."