Use Signal they say. Except lawyers will remind you that if you are ever caught up in criminal proceedings or lawsuit then having Signal on your phone will be interpreted as meaning you have something to hide.
@dpiponi The more Signal is normalized, the less having it on your phone is suspect, though, so there is a prisoner's dilemma situation here
@dpwiz @dpiponi Don't be sorry, I didn't know about the stag hunt, thanks!