Criticism is welcome, but remember to give constructive criticism, which includes consideration of how your criticism will affect the other person emotionally. The golden rule applies: how would you feel if you read the message was directed at you? It's hard for someone to constructively make use of criticism if receiving it is an emotional drain.

@cwebber Funny thing is I find most Americans and Brits are so concerned with not hurting feelings that their criticisms are sugar coated to the point of being effectively useless even honest.

If I were to follow the golden rule I'd be harsh, to the point most people would see it as almost mean. Because thats how I want people to be with me, brutally honest.

The golden rule only tends to work when everyone has the same sensitivities as you.

@freemo @cwebber the golden rule is stupid. People are too different in their disposition for it to ever work.

@animeirl @cwebber @freemo In the short term the golden rule will create conflict. In the long term you will attract people who treat you like you want to be treated and repel different people. At least I think it should work like that.
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@ayy I dont need to be surrounded by people like me though. Diversity is a good thing.

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