long post, psychology of interacting with a famous person. 

So lately, after having a few exchanges with @wilw after each exchange it leaves me pondering the psychology and social influences that might be at play on either side of the screen.

Before I start disseminating it let me say these are just my thoughts and ideas, I may be WAY off on what is really going on in Wil's head and the last thing I'd want to do is speak for him. So please take it with a grain of salt.

Most of us probably know he is famous. Naturally this means that a lot of people probably try to get his attention, its almost a sense of validation for a famous person to acknowledge you for many people, something people probably go off and brag to their friends about. Sometimes this is probably perfectly innocent, but other times it can probably even get nasty. Just people saying the rudest or most trollish things just in the hopes it would get a rise out of him or famous people in general (I've seen that here since he joined).

I've seen in the way he seems to interact with people on here and on twitter. Maybe I'm just reading into things, maybe its nothing, or maybe I'm hitting the head on the nail, who knows. But it seems when someone just wants his attention, they don't get it. Its usually the people who approach him more as a fellow human than as a famous person he is more likely to respond. After a lifetime of people doing what they can to get his attention I think its a natural response, it gets old.

Then there is the psychology on my side, as someone who doesnt care too much about if someone is famous, but there is still an element of "oh wow cool, this guy that was in a show I really love is talking to me, thats neat". I think there is an element of feeling a bit privileged that considering how many people try to get the guys time or attention he is going to speak to me.

In the end I mostly think to myself "this guy probably doesnt get treated like a normal person too often, so if I'm going to chat with him, let me at least try to treat him like I'd treat any other new friend passing by on the internet." He probably doesnt get that often enough.

Either way, thats my late night ramblings as I reflect and relax in bed...

@freemo
One of the problems is that people think they know people they watched in TV.
Sure Next Gen and Geek & Sundry are nice but otherwise I know next to nothing of @wilw
I still love him, has a good beard but rolls to many ones.

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@commandelicious What do you mean by "rolls to many ones". One of what?

If I had to guess by your wording I would almost think you meant joints. Does he publicly talk about smoking weed or something? Or did you mean something else and I've just been in the Netherlands too long, lol.

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@freemo
PRG, he rolls 1, all the time. Its hilarious. I'll give you the link tomorrow, but you probably don't gave the time to watch it alk.

@commandelicious Oh nice, yea I should check it out. I wasn't really even sure what Wil was up to in the entertainment industry lately.

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