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@rnitsch
I know your new here, but please keep in midn QOTO is first and foremost about building bridges. Your style of discussion doesnt seem conducive to that. Consider changing your style of discussion to be less adverserial and more give and take.
You said early on your purpose of debate was to challenge your own preconceptions. That isnt what I'm seeing, what I see is you trying to preach to others your views, trying to convince people your right, and masking it as debate.
I understand you feel attacked, and that often gives rise to defensiveness, but just as you say they could have walked away from the conversation so can you.
I dont want to just ban you, i really dont. I would much rather see you grow as a person and take something more positive away. If i ban you no good has come of your expiernce here. If I show you love, and try to teach you to show love as well, then maybe good can come.
