@thj@mastodon.cloud I;ve been everyone on the spectrum, casual sex to love, always mutual and always open about intent.

When i was younger I always felt sex was for love, in fact I would have said almost word for word the things youve said.

Now that I'm older I find that truly "making love" while special should be reserved for very spevcial people who are very rare, most will abuse love. So it is far more rewarding to give casual sex to most and reserve making love for the rare times that someone deserving comes alone, which for me is once a decade on average it seems.