BEING JUDGED (ADVICE + TIPS):

- Remember it takes skill to judge someone. Not everyone has it.

- Judging purely on someone else's advice is inaccurate / unreliable / limited

- First sight is always wrong (not enough information)

- If you ask only certain questions then you mostly get those types if answers back (this is can be inhibiting like tunnel vision

- Judging people by the job isn't always what they wanted to do... people perhaps couldn't really choose or customise their job.

- It takes time, quick-judgement is always limited and things have many more contexts... although do keep it mind and do expect more time to show more angles.

- Everyone swims well depending on the waters and people they swim with... your questions or the environment is also unavoidably part of that.

- One way could be to judge and keep judging in small parts but relaxing as you go along!

- Ask people what they prefer to talk about if things are not working out.

If you want practice being asked but not judged then let me know.

Things like this are good practice and I used to stick things like this on the wall to encourage testing the ideas with people or talk about different situations.

It's my way when I shared a flat to see people say "that's interesting... strange to me...etc",

I'd wait till people asked a bit :]

- More than meets the eye with each fish! (see picture also about expectations)