About not talking about your name (and similar deep topics)...

So I wanted to cover this before I forget and it's always been super-important to understand when someone say "no" but in a polite way and to see it's not always they are being rude or hiding something (though it can be they don't trust you and are saying I need time or 100 other things and "it's deeply political, I generally never care for names and like nicknames etc better"

So "what my name is" to other can feel too even though it's like the 1st thing people ask!

As I feel similar in other things I though I'd better cover this because relativity is there - also a lack of clarity on my part I see or others (much of FreeSchool is my expression BUT to save people time and say "THIS IS IT - THIS IS WHAT I MEAN" or ask me and I'll search what I have in the 'feelings' department I operate in a lot ... (others more in the physical spaces).

So I would like to know how you would explain to someone about this part of not wanting to talk about it if that applies to you...

Would help me and others... Thanks

And I'll re-write this soon

Example person is below (but just checked is changed only recently) about what not to ask / talk about:

* Fuck all Nazis, burn in hell alt-right🤬 🤬 🤬
*where I live
*what my name is
*color of my persona
*gender
*age
*job
*s*xual orientation
*politics
*world view"

https://mas.to/@nemo/104696119803526575

That perhaps has more that the average 'not this list' but I feel like even this is useful to say at least!