People can be like:

1. "Hey! Come, join our party"

then you join, and they are like

█ "Why are you here, we don't need more like-minded people"

2. "Help me please, I'm drowning / I want to change / to improve etc"

then you show them, half-walk with them and they are lik ,,

█"You manipulating me, why are you even helping, what do you want from me"

I'm sure people this second are going through it and unless you're a kind of 'school' where you see it more often, you not think of this as a common mental symptom.

Also similar to
█"I offer to help you"

then after the help or 2nd / 3rd toilet they'd be misse ;like

"What do you want from me" and them feeling like you abused them or overly took advantage