Slow cooking is usually better than fast cooking.

Slow speaking is usually better than fast speaking (unless you really know each other or can match speed).

Similarly careful understanding instead of faster / uneducated style of thinking buying.

Actually the fast way to go wrong is often fast cook / speak / quick-understand something p

I say this as Fediverse people almost only want to do fast (short) text messages and fast-fuck type solutions and then complain for example when it's not what they wanted (and never stated or left ambiguous or get paranoid by someone genuinely excited by what they wrong)...

Fast, bad work.... plenty of it in relationships... Strangers (both people) need time relax a bit...