That is the question.

Earlier contact I think is better if you're serious about change because "in the future" contact will certainly have more unwanted elements or constrictions.... so better now than later.

AND I / you won't be here in the future and I don't know if next generation is going to show up.

Time to Talk it out is now... and promise not to want to hurt each other.

This is a more humorous artistic form of what I mean seriously:

https://bin.dembased.xyz/freeschool-emotionsarefun-everyoneneedstotalktogether.mp3