@stormbringer
This post was a bit better but jumping all over the place is a sure sign of not keeping to topic
Not good enough for me to do what you do - treating people so is great but if you think that's going to do it or enough regardless or money - it's not.
A lot of ethical things don't cost money but more incremented time and other accumulated gesture (even token gesture accumulate / open up things)
And if your family isn't doing the homework (talking between them / training how to talk / therapy and listening etc) then you're raising a family that is also not good enough by these more-human measurements. People commonly empty all their life into people who just do the same while everything goes downhill... not all your fault but money only isn't the answer either.
Let's see what your next reply is - considering these things.