#p2p fails when #users are not doing the #peertopeer

Not just installing any #mastodon or any #system but actually people doing the people work, almost literally running to each other to see how and who they can help... and vice versa.

We have #fediverse #system for example, who as people can't do communication and incrementing trust at all - so useless without someone doing something about that in itseld - literally re-training ourselves how to make friends and deal with imperfection.

Circle seem to mitigate / repair that with someone respectful in between...

So my question is, are the respectful one or person needing help if you agree it's not just '#systems' to blame...

oh dear, trying to contact #Keet person who doesn't even put their mastodon on the website...
oh dear
and they contacted me and I can't find the message recommend me keet/// yawn fediverse - long way to go ass