I hate dating apps but I think I convinced myself at some point that it was just enough effort to use them so I didn’t have to try irl but just hopeless enough that I’d never have to worry about actually getting into a relationship.
I went on a date recently that went really well and we’re going on another tomorrow
Its been about 8 years since my last serious relationship, and that only lasted a couple months. So I’m going to try and take these next steps slowly and carefully…
Personal Life
I’ve been spending time self reflecting on this, how my relationship fell apart, and how it has impacted me. Here’s what I’ve taken away.
First thing is on incel and virgin as a derogatory terms. I thought I understood why this was funny and that I deserved to be made fun of, but now that I’m in on the joke I don’t see why these get a pass in the mainstream compared to other non-politically correct words. I might change my mind later but right now it just seems unfair imo.
