@snow Yeah I totally get what you mean... I blame American porn and Asian upskirt photos for messing up people's ideals of sex. (So glad I wasn't exposed to much porn while growing up)
And I hope the world will forgive me for not breeding myself... That's apparently a very grave sin for us Asian folks.
Unlike porn, sexuality is really very fluid in real life... Maybe we shouldn't label ourselves as whatever-sexual 🤔