@average_random_joe here is the context https://qoto.org/web/statuses/105616792264566328
Now make up your mind is it understood or not understood. Your examples make no sense what so ever.
To punch someone who spits on you or your wife is a display of weakness in my eyes, and I don't see what is understood there. Best case they conclude "will pick on someone weaker next time", worst case - "this guy can't even land a punch" and then you are the one getting knocked out.
Use of force to stop a violent act is entirely different thing and has nothing to do with understanding.
Regarding all your war glorification, the surrendering side stops the war (and starts communication), not the other way around, unless you would argue for total annihilation, which will not be surprising at this point.