Stack Overflow shares a lot in common with the jerks who moderate Wikipedia where someone can be brought up on all kinds of silly technicalities and arcane insider rules.
They rely on there being a free labor force who is willing to put up with all these jerks.
The difference between Stack Overflow and Wikipedia is that Wikipedia is an actual non-profit, therefore you can give them a bit of a pass for not having the best decorum.
They not only have a vast quantity of content, they also provide a very important service without having to resort to a for-profit model.