@esther It can get very difficult to find a good server because of domain blocks. you may find a server with people you like, but which blocks other servers you're interested in. You may find a server which doesn't block the other ones, however other servers will block it because it is not blocking...

I do get the point of moderation and I recognize it is an important and hard job, however it feels to me that domain blocks are given a bit too liberally by a lot of server admins.

What I do is stay on a large server and follow the local timelines of servers I'm interested in.