I wish there were more spaces online, and that those spaces made clear and solid declarations about what they offer to the people who opt into using them, and then we felt freer to make anxiety-free and responsible choices about which of those spaces we decided to take part in. This is a common part of life in the physical world, but somehow we’ve decided that all online spaces must be all things to all people
@robryk @casey a conversation? Maybe every server has to be a mutual? I just think more deciding what federating with another server means would be good