@claralistensprechen3rd @sasyecat Yes, and for some it's a really, really big deal. I've never understood that. (Very hetero male here, by the way. Pretty much fearless. Engaged in lots of manly behaviors and activities that would scare the crap out of most. And so what? Who I am has nothing to do with who you are. Do your thing and I'm there for it, whatever it is.)