Another guy came into the conversation (a good acquaintance of mine for a few years actually) and said what I think was the most definitive thing about the discussion that should have directed all further conversation. Everyone nodded their heads and the group did a "yes, but" and continued.
It wasn't a bad experience or anything, the discussion was great, just some funny observations.
Formally the discussion was about how the UI for Urbit is html+css+js and how can we use
#Urbit for every part in the future, and what would that look like.
It was a very 10,000 feet discussion so it was all okay, I just think it would have been the best if it were a panel discussion with a few people heavily involved in the development though.