Not trusting big pharma is now a crime, essentially, except that there are no trials for the accused and the sentences are immediate and extreme, often involving a total loss of livelihood
Men - Your primary gift is *investigation* and it yields proof; never neglect your intuition.
Women - Your primary gift is *intuition*, and it yields insight; never neglect investigation.
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IRL, I am in a position of responsiblity where I find myself counselling couples often - which is kinda ridiculous because I am a degerate.
Nevertheless, I have noticed something about couples and fears of infidelity.
It seems Men looking for proof of infidelity tend to push women away in their search for proof. The woman inevitably catches him snooping and gets ticked off that "trust is shattered" when really what he is seeking "confirmation of loyalty". In other words, he is 'feeling' insecure.
Women, on the other hand, I have noticed go with their gut that "something is just not right" and, by presupposing their lover's infidelity, in turn treat him colder than usual OR flirt with other male's when they have no hard evidence of infidelity. This can lead the coldshouldered husband/boyfriend to find affection from another woman (cheat) OR lead her to cheat herself (as she comes up with "reasons" why her mate is lesser than her new fling).
Take these with a grain of salt - they are generalizations, but ones that I have often noticed.
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I cannot advise any one of what to do if their relationship is at this point. I am hardly an expert or good example at marriage.
BUT what I can say is - the insecure one (needing confirmation of loyalty) needs to communicate openly and clearly to the his/her partner what they need to feel secure, and the partner should oblige if it is reasonable.
Love is a precious thing, and if the above seems transactional, well yeah it is.
We acquire precious material goods transactionally, why not love and loyalty?
Life is short, communicate more, phuqq more, and keep your money out of therapists and divorce lawyers pockets.
NBA player Jonathan Isaac explains that he’s had COVID in the past and has developed natural immunity: “I don’t believe being unvaccinated means infected….It should be everybody’s fair choice without being demeaned.”