@natecull Not only strangers.
@dredmorbius Right, but it seems to be that what most people are complaining about when they say social media is 'toxic' is very particularly *strangers* 'coming into their mentions', as if their mentions are a place and not just a list provided by a computer trying to be 'helpful'.
'I gave a party just for my friends and all these randoms I didn't know crashed it! They all just walked in through the TV set! My TV is broken!' seems to be the feeling.
@dredmorbius and yeah, our TV sets probably shouldn't be designed so that anyone can teleport into your house through them, I guess! only friends!
that's where our use-case metaphors start to break down
@natecull @dredmorbius kind of feels like the future of the internet is walled gardens all the way down, with controlled conduits between. Not sure if that'll be for better or worse, but I can't see many trends in the opposite direction