@swiley I just switched to Lineage+microG (Google Service stubs). I use DavX+Radicale for calendar/contacts, K9mail for my self-hosted e-mail, Conversations (XMPP) to
jmp.chat for my VoIP provider. In general, there are very few apps from Auora (substitute Play store) that I've installed. I sometimes forgot my phone in my car and won't notice for a few hours.
https://battlepenguin.com/tech/moving-my-phone-number-from-google-hangouts-voice-to-an-sip-xmpp-service/