@dangerdyke This still sounds somewhat confused to me, so my attempt:
leaving the abortion decision to the pregnant person: cool, good
a specific abortion: might depend on the situation
Although I also think that deciding to bring a person into the world means you should influence the person at least in some ways (take your prenatal vitamins people!), so maybe I actually disagree?
@dangerdyke Also sorry if I'm doing any "reply-guying", feel free to ignore me and the discussion if I overstepped.