I think the qoto.org being added to someone's naughty list thing is biting me in the friends' list. My mate Steph @vollans can't see me despite the connection and waving and wotnot. What to do, what to do? 🤔
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@hilarybaumann @bykimbo @vollans Just keep in mind that there are servers blocking one-person servers by default.
You can't please everybody. 
@hilarybaumann @bykimbo @vollans Whatever you fancy. :)
Ultimately you decide where you want to settle. And I hope you'll be happy with whatever you decide on, take care!
@bykimbo @vollans @trinsec
so the way around that is I host x number of fake people or X number of real friends /family to get around those that block servers with only one user.
Any way it goes, that’s better IMO than being on someone’s naughty list for no obvious reason.
I’m also now set up on mastodon.world and if no one can figure out why Qoto has been put on the naughty list and get it back off I’m probably going to bounce over there for a minute then decide to stay or just set up usernames I don’t care about to lurk.