@adhdeanasl that's not a useful analogy.
Imagine you go to checkout at the grocery store and they start trying to diagnose your medical problems.
Trump is running for president, he's running for a political office, he's not running for a checkout or to be a doctor. So why in the world would you compare him to them?
It's a completely different role.
In our democratic process the people are selecting assholes to represent them and run the bureaucracy of government. If the people want a jerk, well, that's how the system works.
That is so different from any of the other examples that you brought up.
(Pardon my French in the following, but I really want to emphasize this)
Trump is running to be the top asshole, the head bureaucrat at the head of a branch of government. He's running to represent the US population, which by the way, contains an awful lot of assholes.
So why wouldn't we expect him to act like a jerk, to represent a bunch of jerks?