if you're new here on fedi from #Bluesky (or recently returned from bluesky) and you want some help kickstarting your account, link me to an introduction post in reply to this post and i'll give it a boost for you
Welcome to the fediverse, Your experience should be (based on that of others) far better, by having lots of instances, there is true choice and we are able to build really good communities. Hopefully you have found your place here, so you can now focus on connecting and doing the things YOU want to do, look forward with both eyes without having to keep one looking back at the person behind you.