@JessSweetValleyHigh@spinster.xyz @Jennifer_Lee @freemo @alex

I'm sorry? Now I'm being called a 'creepy little henchman'. I've been called a 'woman-hating neckbeard' and you're accusing me of saying that I'm wanting to burn down your safe space?

That, my dear lady, is an outright attack, it isn't fair, and none of it is true. I fully support your rights and ability to say what you want to say. I have had a lot of very good interactions with people on Spinster that, I feel, should at least show *ME* as a good faith actor. Attacking me directly is a low fucking blow, and it shows that you have *ZERO* desire to come to an understanding. You'd rather fight.

And let me say : your opinion of yourself is quite fucking high if you think you're going to 'Save the Fediverse'.

You can't call the internet a safe space. You can't call social media a safe space- These are arguments I see made BY PEOPLE ON YOUR INSTANCE EVERY DAY.

You can't eat your cake and have it to.

I was trying to de-escalate this, but you keep pushing. You keep attacking.

Do you see the problem? Do you see what *you* are doing or are you so gun-ho to protect the other women in Spinster that you outright ignore your own issues?

Let's put it down to a single question- Yes or No.

If a Woman asks a Man to stop contacting her should he stop?

- Think we both know the answer. The answer goes both ways.