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How do I explain, I'm not worried about causing hurt through hate, but through some twisted semblance of "love", and that it feels like the only way to make sure I never do is to never love?
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@OpenComputeDesign Sounds similar to "love bombing", when someone is enthusiastic but overlooks reluctance from the other person?
If this fits what you are talking about, it should be cured by using a good definition of love that includes listening to the other person, as opposed to a one way street of positive utterances.
Like for example i don't just tell my gf she is beautiful and interesting, i try to find out what is actually important to her and think about it instead of "blanket positive" reactions.
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Much easier said than done, though. Especially when the other person might accept harmful behavior for the sake of love. They might not even notice.
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@OpenComputeDesign Well, the maturity and confidence of others is important to reasonably interact. If they are not up to it, better to steer clear sometimes. But that's not "never", just with some standards.
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@admitsWrongIfProven I wanna be a father, though, so there would, by definition, be a lack of maturity.