@chikara Thank you for a nice and relevant post. The process is ongoing, we haven't reached conclusions yet.
There were many goopd posts and points made, we had people participating from different instances even. The question of controlling undesirable actions and content being add to any particular instance or service is important.
The voting on the open survey you mentioned had very small number of votes, and even those were not restricted to local, verified users. So I wouldn't take it as a mandate for a certain direction.
Qoto is in a way VERY unusual - in having this kind of discussion out in the open, on a public feed, that is spread out across the whole Fediverse and the Federation too.
(yes, there's TWO biggies, I have learned recently)
I have been participating in many networks actively for many years, starting from the pre-Internet days. And this kind of discussion was held "In Camara", on meetings for site staff, or on a physical meet at some public space in case of a local entity.
While we had that and another related big discussion (the instance's thematic focus and the surging unrelated, general posting by new users).
That is equally important, and also was done in the open.
Meanwhile, posting continued as usual, but I think we are making progress.
Leadership is important in all kinds of aspects in life. Here as well, there's space for anyone who is caring and willing to pitch in.