@Ox yea the fact that I treat them as equals im sure gets me some brownie points. While some of my female friends I've slept with it usually just happened one day. Most see me more as a "protector" in the sense that if they are going to an unsafe situation, especially sexually (like they are going to be too drunk and at risk of rape) they ask me to come so I can watch over them. I'm happy to of course... so im sure thats some of it.

But truth be told I am a bit flirtatious. I dont think it comes off as me trying to sleep with them. I just like to compliment people and its easier with women. It never goes past very generous compliments though so I dont think they really see it as me coming on to them even if it sometimes seems a bit flirty.

I dunno, hard to explain, but I have a lot of female friends so I must be doing something right.

I am very different than I am online so would be hard for you to get a sense of it I think.