@freemo ayyyyyy

@freemo Coomer confirmed

@xyfdi @freemo
Be quiet

@design_RG Spring cleanup? What do you mean?

@freemo Make the instance pretty. Rake the leaves, etc

@design_RG

https://youtu.be/GBwELzvnrQg

@freemo Amaroq, iOS person. 🏧

@design_RG Its going to suit her really well too. She is a professional nurse, very interested in STEM, and uses her FB mostly for more professional networking rather than shitposting. So she is likely to get along well here.

@freemo Very good. She will need a good guide to mastodon, eh. pass my links on.

@design_RG she will.. perhaps you can share when she comes her, id like her to meet you.

@freemo That will be great. Look forward to it!

@Ox Surprised @freemo wouldn't immediately silence her account on instinct

@alex

We fairly rarely silence accounts. When we do it is only when they break a rule and do not respond to an official message from a moderator after 24 hours.

We usually give a user a chance to discuss any issues before any action is taken.

@Ox

@freemo @alex @Ox Also they were already friends, as he previously stated

@Ox Yup with boobies and everything! I think you'd get along with her actually.

@freemo i do like my fellow boobie people

@Ox boobie people are my favorite people :)

In all seriousness most of my friends in real life are women. I have a clear bias for some reason.

@freemo oftentimes it's just circumstance I think. and women appreciate good male friends who aren't constantly tryin to see if they can sleep with us. lol

@Ox yea the fact that I treat them as equals im sure gets me some brownie points. While some of my female friends I've slept with it usually just happened one day. Most see me more as a "protector" in the sense that if they are going to an unsafe situation, especially sexually (like they are going to be too drunk and at risk of rape) they ask me to come so I can watch over them. I'm happy to of course... so im sure thats some of it.

But truth be told I am a bit flirtatious. I dont think it comes off as me trying to sleep with them. I just like to compliment people and its easier with women. It never goes past very generous compliments though so I dont think they really see it as me coming on to them even if it sometimes seems a bit flirty.

I dunno, hard to explain, but I have a lot of female friends so I must be doing something right.

I am very different than I am online so would be hard for you to get a sense of it I think.