@freemo I kinda unlocked something today of this kind of understanding and almost it's better if blocked... I felt great and like I didn't need both try making friends...
Takes a certain nature so better earlier without looking for it eitehr... I have a list at the moment but it's so obvious.

I personally think to do something about it in a light way to highlight basically communication problem stuffing everything online... (pretty much since emails)... or somehow 'this' is what needs fixing before anything else on top...

Any thoughts on how to make it obvious or sort it out...