A good friend replies to almost everything...
But at the same time it's hard to survive whole-truths or being too deep in 1 way constantly.
It's like facing the horror humanity at the same time as trying to make friends.
A rant can feel like it's directed personally at friends and feel like having wheels without grease that people want to instantly throw away, but after a rant things can instantly return to normal (IF they can ride the noise for a while). And then back to the normal greased-wheel fun AFTER.. Not many can stand these frequent "test"
For us the "un-normal" or those the less hiding ourselves and less burdening others in this crazy world, we are trying to repair or help in the over way, where many opt out of trying at all... because "it's too much change" and "I don't have time" ETC whereas we can't stand or allow that self-fulfilling prophecy and can even admit we're not perfect but we MUST try else leave it to others to crap on.
So too much truth can kill things between 2 learners of life... but that's life too.
Both outcomes are actually not bad as a little test of friendship is natural to come about but at the same time having lots of non-deep friends can help too be less sharp...
What do you prefer ? Do you think your friends will be actually stay there even if you say something bad or do the worst things?
I have to accept for example that I don't have too many friends as I prefer working on true things in life rather than false daily life of "business as usual" uncaring state (etc)... rather than cover it up...
This for me all connects the little things we might know about #AuDHD #Autism #ADHD #Neurodivergent people or just characteristics more in some spectrum than another but all should be good because generally:
➡️ We care a lot and often (often 'too much" for others)
➡️ We put certain aims above all else
And for some people it's not good enough to be put 2nd on the important list or be less the focus but in a way those 'other things' are caring for others though people can see friendship as possessions. It's not. Life is for sharing... good and bad.
