@sim @harblinger is it a virtue to go out drinking with friends?
or is it a vice?
@sim @harblinger shitposting on fedi is almost certainly a vice
@sim @harblinger I tried reducing my time down to short spells but then you get into a conversation....
@sim @harblinger I really think the definition of virtue and vices are problematic, however the idea of going against your preferences is solid advice.
Reducing your exposure to pleasure, austerity, and increasing your exposure to pain, courage, are universal virtues when not pushed to extremes (or if you push it to extremes only do it for short spell)
at the end of the day, there's no replacement for self-awareness and good instincts, even if they have to be developed by experience (i.e. trial and error)
I'd also add common sense to that, something often missing now. As if it is offensive to have and use.