Trying to please everyone and being nice to everyone, I find, is the easiest way to guarantee you are surrounded by the worst sort of people imaginable. I mean sure, they will like, or at least tolerate, you. But you will have to deal with their constant drama and demands.

Now not giving a fuck and telling people they have dumbass ideas and flipping them off when they start drama, thats a sure way to guarantee you're surrounded by cool people who wont fly off the handle at every bit of nonsense.

Start living a life worth living, embrace your inner asshole.