@Tusky what!?! My ss also aren't attached to my post. (At least thats what i saw in my post).
@deesapoetra @Tusky
I noticed that too some time back. To follow people I have to use another client or the web browser.
support response
@lucifargundam @deesapoetra Hey, so we did some research and basically it's an incompatible api extension.
You need to poke your admin about it.
Specifically the 'subscribing' attribute of the relationship response on qoto.org is an object, but has to be a boolean as per Mastodon api specification
We raised an issue here https://git.qoto.org/qoto/qoto/-/issues/11
support response
@Tusky @lucifargundam wow! That was quick!! Thank you! 
I will refer to the linked git for further solution!
@Tusky
Here's the screenshot.
No "follow" button. Nothing.