@freemo sorry, no bad intentions. Depression as label is created. That people get into troubles is true. That is one subject, but that it is created as label is different subject, and that is for profit only, for psychiatry. Drugs do not help any depression, they may just let person become a walking zombie, but is that help?
@louis @freemo Swedes rely on psychiatry and medication much less than people in the USA.

Sounds awesome, right? What is the secret? Swedish society and physiology is not all that different from the USA after all. How do they manage it?

Maybe Swedish society is a bit less stressful? After all, there's parental leave and vacations on a whole other order of magnitude than in the USA, and there is heavily subsidized medical care and no crime-ridden megacities. Life is just better, and Swedes compete with the Danes on being the happiest people on the planet.

Swedes kill themselves 20% more than US Americans.
@louis @freemo

Swedes kill themselves 20% more than US Americans.



So, what do you make of the comparison, @clacke ? Everyone has dark thoughts and Swedes tend to internalize them? I'm pretty sure the stats would show that US Americans do a better job at killing each other.
@alysonsee @louis @freemo I stand behind my implied statement that Swedes kill themselves more because mental health carries more stigma than in the US, and fewer Swedes seek treatment, whether talk therapy, medication or both, even though both are far more affordable in Sweden.
@clacke @alysonsee @louis @freemo I wish I kept that stigma and didn't reach out for the so-called support in the UK. I went through all this shit, and it didn't address my problems. I came out with more trauma than I went in. The meds, the counselling, the CBT, the charities... all of it. I could have done without it.

I did hear later on too late for me that the drugs only work for a minority of people. They also have the potential for awful side-effects like causing the problems you go into it for. It's all experimentation. I don't think the people giving them to me were even qualified for that position, and it was hard to convince them to get me off it when I realised it was detrimental and gave me what I'd call withdrawal for my brain.
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Its hard for me to respond to that because i wasnt there, we just have your opinion. While i completely believe it is an honest opinion you hold, its still tricky on a few accounts.

For example if i take everything at face value then it sounds like you just had some really shitty doctors. From what I know of UK healthcare that is no surprise your system is horrific and you will have a hard time finding qualified doctors in general.

If that is the case that is not an argument against psychiatry it is only an arguments against unqualified psychiatrists. Which i agree are likely to do more harm than good.

The other side of the coin is that depending on the nature of your mental health its hard to gauge what sort of mental health issues you have and if that prevents you or not from being objective about your own treatment. Not saying this applies to you, I dont know you. But it is common for many with mental illness.

I once helped someone I cared about who as he got older developed Paranoid Schizophrenia rather severely. When untreated he couldn't sleep, believed people were beaming thoughts in his head, telling him to kill himself, i would often find him just crying in his room alone due to all the stress.

Despite this he refused treatment of any kind. He felt everyone was part of some grand conspiracy, doctors, me, everyone, so he naturally refused. Ultimately i told him the only way i would continue to help him is if he was getting treatment, otherwise he had to go back and live with his parents. This was enough for him to seek his treatment and take medication.

The thing is on medication he gave me a huge hug and cried as he told me how much happier he was and how grateful he was to me for forcing it on him in his otherwise incoherent state. Thing is after a few weeks he told me he was stopping the medication as he didnt feel he actually needed, he thought he was healthy again and the meds just "made him tired". So he went off of it and back to his old self in a few days.

The thing is when he isn't on the meds he would say things that sound similar, that it was all horrible and just part of the torture and "mind games" of the conspiracy. Despite the fact that clearly when he was on it and rational he felt it was helpful.

Long story short its hard to know without knowing someones mental health history if that may not apply or not.

@alysonsee @clacke @louis

@freemo @alysonsee @clacke @louis In his case, there could be a good case made for what he was taking. But at face value on my word alone, I can say I don't have Paranoid Schizophrenia. More like PTSD-like symptoms from the treatment that I got and being passed around like I was. It was more stressful than it was worth going through all that.

I checked myself in each time when I realised I was getting out of control. It was only after all that that I realised how bad it was for me. The people were nice enough but the treatment wasn't what I needed. I've had to manage myself. I needed help because I was depressed, suicidal and attempting self-harm although it wasn't permanent with scars.

The meds were given to me by the GP. It was only meant to be temporary but it turned into over a year. I mentioned even being suicidal on them. It didn't help me and put me out of pocket. When I mentioned it wasn't working, the dose was put up. No one put me on anything else. Honestly, lifestyle changes have been the best for me... and I think a good support network would have worked. It's hard to have these in the modern day.

@sim

I beleive you. I have had some pretty horrific expiernce in American hospitals (not so much mental health but id imagine they can be pretty shitty too).

But i maintain my point, the issue you had was shitty doctors, not so much the whole principle of mental health, treatment and medication, just the more specific case of how it applied to you.

I'd also agree that we should strive to make sure that doesnt happen. We need to make sure we have well trained, high quality psychiatrists. That is so critical.

@alysonsee @clacke @louis

@freemo @alysonsee @clacke @louis The way it was all set out was pretty awful. GP's prescribing the stuff, and you get 10 minutes with them. The person I saw for CBT saw me for an hour a month... and tried to treat me for something else when I needed help with not being suicidal. He didn't do anything with the meds I was on when I asked.

Well, that and I take issue with how the medication is done. It's all experimental since we don't have a test to determine what levels things are really at. It's not good to mess about with that. I didn't realise at first that it could make me more suicidal to be on them. I didn't really have anyone keeping an eye on me. I had to manage myself and preferred that in the end. It's still a struggle. I'm just fortunate that I'm so self-aware... it is both a good and bad thing. It makes people less likely to think I need support... but it does mean that I am better placed to be able to support myself.

I would say that if you know someone with depression or suicidal, then the best thing you can do if they are close is to be there for them. Talk to them about it and see what they think you can do to make things less stressful. The support of people around is so important. Depression is isolating. You need people who will stick with you that will form a healthy connection with you. It doesn't stop the pain but it helps with resilience.

@sim

Sadly I find that is a fairly universal problem with all single-payer healthcare. You get severly underpaid healthcare workers who need to diagnose you in 10 minutes and are paid so low no one wants to enter the industry either.

Dont get me wrong I'm not arguing for a purely free-market healthcare system either. I have a pretty solid solution IMO that is neither of these.

@alysonsee @clacke @louis

@freemo @alysonsee @clacke @louis The funny thing is, politicians keep promising better mental health support and to chuck money at the problem... but where will that money go? Will it even go to fixing the procedures to get the support we really need?
@sim @freemo @alysonsee @clacke if we take definition of trust to be based on past experiences, then answer will be clearly NO.

The term "mental health" is double-speak. It indicates, that if you are disgruntled with something, politicians and psychiatry have got a loophole to label you as "not normal" and remove you from society.

I do hold that there are evil people in society. But term itself is used to label everyone not-healthy, starting from babies being 1 year old to aged people, all for the sake of profit.

Thus if politicians promise "better mental health" I know they made open or hidden contracts with the largest industry in the world, psychopharmacy.

@sim

PArtly, but i agree a politician isnt likely to do a very good job fixing anything. We do admittedly have pretty shitty politicians in the USA.

That was my whole point with single-payer. It doesnt work (that is just the government throwing money at something). As I said, just as a pure free market doesnt work.

You can have neither of these in several potential systems.

@alysonsee @clacke @louis

@sim @freemo @alysonsee @clacke

One thing to research, and later to realize (hopefully) is that human problems categorized by the American Psychiatric Association in the DSM or Diagnostic And Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders -- ARE NOT diseases and medical conditions.

They are just as the manual says "disorders". This means disorder from "normal" human behavior.

But what is "normal"? That is what them, psychiatrist, wish to rule, they wish to say what is normal and what is not normal. It is for their agenda, not for agenda of people.

They, psychiatrists, would like to be medical, but they are not. It is not medicine, it is not science. It is body of knowledge based on opinions and authorities.

There is no reliability in the DSM: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental_Disorders#Reliability_and_validity_concerns

Before, being "negro slave fleeing the master" was psychiatric disorder. Reference: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drapetomania As a remedy for this "disease", doctors made running a physical impossibility by prescribing the removal of both big toes.

Human problems, like communication, relations, feelings CANNOT BE SOLVED with drugs. Or anything chemicals. One can drug oneself and become less aware, this for sure. One can drug one self and become a living zombie, this all works, but underlying problems are never solved with chemicals.

Just don't believe psychiatry. Its roots are rotten.

While I stand by the point that medication and therapy when done right and with the proper care are overall more beneficial than harmful I did want to share this image just for the lols and to lighten the mood a little.

this is basically how you guys see pharmacists :)

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@freemo @sim @alysonsee @clacke @louis
Nah, Sim is right. The drugs are a joke. A scam. Here, let a licensed therapist tell you. https://youtu.be/tiC-8suDDaI?t=140

But most importantly, the mental health world DOES NOT have the same goal as mental health patients. You go in wanting to figure out what's wrong, work through your problems, solve them, find closure, regain balance. Psychiatry and psychotherapy have different goals — keep you from suddenly doing anything weird and be a good, productive, tax-paying sheeple (or if you're really fucked up, sort you off to the side so you don't interfere with the others). So, no quitting bad jobs, marriages, walking out on your kids, mortgages, etc. Definitely no confrontations with parents, friends, wives, bosses, or other authority figures — even though that could bring you closure and even solve your problem, it's dangerous and destabilizing. Better to dope you up.

The other part of it I think, Freemo, is that most people DO know objectively what they need. But what they need is often inconvenient. You go in at 15 and tell people "Everyone hates me" or "I have a terrible life" and they tell you, "Noooo. You have a family that loves you and you have a lot of wonderful things in your life." And the evil thing is... You were right to begin with. But it will take you another 10-30+ years to realize it! You thought that everyone hated you, because you were surrounded by people who DID hate you. You had family or a spouse or friends who had contempt for you. It's not counteracted by those people telling you they love you. That's a manipulation and abuse technique, it's not affection. And you got to thinking your life was pretty bad because you were in whatever situation you were in. Well, it was. Ha! But they just want to dope you up and keep you going along without growing and changing and breaking with the past and choosing a new and healthier future. Mental health is a racket. People are better off trying to sort it out on their own with journaling, meditation, and healthy living.

And as far as the severe illnesses, it's really the same thing. They're not wrong that it's a total conspiracy. They see something is wrong, with their family, their environment, the Clown World at large, and everyone around them tells them it's not. If they can't get out of the situation or resolve it somehow, they will eventually split off mentally in order to handle the trauma. All the delusions and hallucinations are entirely real, but they are being expressed allegorically, the only way that person can get anyone to listen to them without immediately dismissing their concerns. It's actually possible to resolve even serious mental illnesses by understanding this and unraveling it, but it's difficult and in most cases it doesn't get resolved.
@jack @freemo @alysonsee @clacke @louis @sim keep buying our drugs slave.

I stopped being a good goyem and used therapy and meditation to fix the issue I had (real bad panic attacks caused by eating food/being around smoke). Dr just had me take an SSRI.

Fucked with my sex drive and willingness to do anything. Only benefit was when I did have sex, it made me last as long as a pornstar 🍆.

Still though, fuck doctors that don’t actually care for your wellbeing. They just want that sweet sweet drug money (or free rep food).
@vix @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis @sim
Isn't it really bizarre that they basically try to put every 20-something on one or more of the 20 drugs that make it impossible to orgasm while at the same time encouraging crazy hedonistic sexual lifestyles? I still haven't figured that one out actually.

Yeah, it's a big (helpful) wakeup when you realize doctors aren't benevolent demigods. They're just ordinary people who've memorized a bunch of stuff (which they may or may not fully understand or remember correctly) who are pretty good at sales and acting.
@jack @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis @sim they are also taught that all these weird side effects don’t actually really mean anything. “If even a single person of the thousands who tested it felt this, they have to put it on the label. A lot of it is bull.”

Paraphrasing, but my dr told me that about the SSRI.

Meanwhile now I believe that SSRI’s are the main reason for all of these mass shootings. Oohp!
@vix @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis @sim
Mass shootings are the result of people being told to "sit down and shut up and how dare they speak up" one too many times by petty tyrant figures of authority (i.e., shitty parents, shitty teachers, shitty coaches, shitty brown-nosers, shitty sjws, shitty hr ladies, shitty cops, shitty lawyers, shitty judges, shitty politicians, etc.). People break the Social Contract by killing a whole bunch of random people because the Social Contract is worthless to them, because there's no longer an ability to redress everyday grievances unless they play an ancillary game of machiavellianism. And if they're unable or unwilling to play that game well or to debase themselves and suffer endless abuses and indignities... pow pow is what makes sense.

TL;DR, in this one case, I don't think it's drugs.
@jack @vix @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @sim I totally agree with you, it is COMPLEX AND SAD state and people in broken relations may tend to do anything.

However, there are also influences which shall not be omitted from such analysis.

Quoting:

CCHR International’s investigation into school violence reveals that at least 36 school shootings and/or school-related acts of violence have been committed by those taking or withdrawing from psychiatric drugs resulting in 172 wounded and 80 killed (in other school shootings, information about their drug use was never made public—neither confirming or refuting if they were under the influence of prescribed drugs or undergone other behavioral therapy.)[2] At least 27 international drug regulatory agency warnings have been issued on psychiatric drugs being linked to mania, violence, hostility, aggression, psychosis, and homicidal ideation (thoughts or fantasies of homicide that can be planned).

https://www.cchrint.org/2018/02/20/school-shootings-mental-health-watchdog-says-psychotropic-drug-use-by-school-shooters-merits-federal-investigation/

Facts: https://www.cchrint.org/school-shooters/

In simple words: people taking mind-altering drugs, have high chance for behavior-altering. This is very logical.

More simpler: psychiatric drugs are dangerous and solely made for purpose of profit of psychiatry and removal of non-worthy life from the Earth, just as envisioned by psychiatrist Alfred Hoche and Karl Binding https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karl_Binding -- same ideology is spread out NOW in the world, the destruction of unworthy life is going on, in front of your own eyes.
@vix @jack @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis I heard that as well. Not sure that it was by the doctors. I think a lot of the research still gets hidden away so you don't realise that they only help a small minority (Whatever that means) compared to how many they are selling them to. The odds are not in your favour... compared with the side effects.
@jack @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis @sim and personally I loved that I could last forever. I felt like a monster. But when it came to actually orgasming too, it was like.. well it sucked. Barely feel anything. Definitely didn’t make me want to do it much.

In the meantime in other non-drugged countries, 20year olds are reproducing like fucking bunny rabbits.

Gotta end that European race yo.

@jack

I've been to many a Psychiatrist. Not one has ever suggested to me a drug.

The reason its so common is because if someone is severe enough to seek mental health there is a good chance they need something more than just talk to cope with their symptoms.

Its exactly the same as the following silly argument: "Isn't it weird that most people who go to see a surgeon wind up getting one of the 20 surgeries that doctor performs".. Well duh, thats probably why most people went to see said doctor, to get treatment, so lets not be surprised that they... get treatment.

@alysonsee @clacke @vix @louis @sim

@jack @freemo @alysonsee @clacke @louis @sim quick aside about the family thing though. When I was young and an angsty teen, I thought people didn’t like me, but it really was just me being an angsty teen. Didn’t take any drugs for that though.
@vix @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis @sim
Catastrophizing is a real yooff thing and you do grow out of it. But I do still think the average person is surrounded by family, friends, significant others, schools and workplaces that are filled with dysfunctional people who have contempt for those around them.
@vix @jack @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @louis Can you think of any time where that might have been true before you were a teenager though? You may have been playing out old patterns and been triggered over things that reminded you of it. You really do need to be around people that do like you and want to be around you to know what that looks and feels like. If you were in school, it really is a place where kids get thrown together and it is full of rejection because not everyone will get along. Kids tease each other over any differences, and try to fit in with their little group. It's not really the place for outcasts. What if you were right as an angsty teen that other kids didn't like you? I'm not saying it should be applied to everyone you meet but there is probably something in it. You can probably think of people that didn't like you.
@louis @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @jack @vix I'm not sure what you mean by like one... please could you elaborate?
@louis @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @jack @vix I'm not really sure about that. I do know that it isn't very nice to grow up around people that don't like you, and you can't even escape them when they bully you.
@sim @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @jack @vix

Not good, sure. In some countries, there is no option to report or prevent it.

But in some countries, bullies are expelled from schools.
@louis @alysonsee @clacke @freemo @jack @vix True. But there isn't very much support for the children that are bullied. This stuff can screw with your head and thought patterns about yourself before you are even mature enough to realise it has in order to correct it in time so it doesn't become baggage you carry around with you.
@jack @freemo @alysonsee @clacke @louis It's interesting that you mention all this, because the goals you mention are exactly what I wanted. I don't feel like I got it. I might look into this therapist more.

It's very confusing when you are made out to be the one with the problems. It's hard to sort out what is based in reality and what is more your thought patterns about things. Where you set boundaries with everyone around you. I also had delusions at one point, but I had to sort those out alone because I knew I would become insane if I didn't. I don't think I've had those since because I can draw the line.
@sim @jack @alysonsee @clacke @freemo

Let me know ONE at this planet without ever having any problems...

We are all imaginative, spiritual beings, isn't this communication reflection of that? A small tiny reflection. Imagination we have since moment we are born. Imagination is our own reality and part of it is reality around, everything people agree about. Imagination is always connected to reality around us, always. Without imagination, no reality can be there.

Some people have more abilities than others, some are more imaginative or creative. Some are more concerned with it.

It does not justify the bodily injuries, electro-shocks, and other inhumane practices.

@jack

If we use the opinions of licensed therapists to sway us. Then why THIS licensed therapist you linked? Why not one fromt he vast majority who are more educated (not just licensed therapy but actual psychologists who need much more training)? Seems like a overly cherry picked source with minimal credentials...

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