> So you are saying what happens happens. No benefit in thinking about it. I am born to this mother, and father, and that is it.
Not saying that at all. By all means thing about what happens. Obviously you cant change (nor was there any random element of chance) determining who you were born to. But you can certainly think and talk about it and what that means.
> If i am born to little chances at success,
You mean like me? I was born to abject poverty and grew up in it my whole life on welfare.
> why do anything. Why struggle, when life is like it is?
Born to little chances.. have to understnad what that means.. it means the average person will have little chance. It does not mean you have little chance. The chance you have to survive will be determined far more by the choices you make, than the choices thrust on you.
Despite growing up with "little chances" it was quite trivial for me to become successful as early as the age of 15.
I've lived this and already proven its not just possible, its easy.