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Judging a Book and People by their cover... [Podcast Audio] 

Judging People like 'Judging a Book by their cover... [Podcast Introduction]

Optional reading....

Looking at the phenomenon of :fediverse: not replying in a lot more depth, similar to emails people don't answer consciously and deliberately for many nuanced reasons. Is this eventually crucial to humanity (?)
and as basic communication something to improve(?)...

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OPTIONAL READING
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OK... in /some/ way external ignorance and judging people is a normal everyday thing, but not cool in my book and gone too far now where it renders things fake or useless.
People "Judging a book by their cover" more often... which isn't ok after a while and probably under the radar now... or has plenty of room for improvement.

Because actually we and our communication skills are seemingly dying. (no drama intended just dying)

And we need better communication - in everything now. Even more when we rely on just text... (which is why I'm going for audio heavily now as you can feel people better without knowing anything about them, and see / hear they care about topic)... no flags etc...

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Extra / for those that want...
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Looking at the phenomenon of :fediverse: not replying is genuine here because constantly I find (after asking / talking to many) that they are the best / genuine / dedicated people but need help gently in their ways... as we all do.

Analysis also provided about the nuanced set of 'I'm too busy' and 'I haven't got time' variations which are really cover-up and cloaked:

ignorance,
disgust,
distance,
judgement,
hypocrisy,

deception (of self or not facing self, deception of others)

non-player attitude,

force - from enforcing silence / being silent

disconnection - ('attachment theory' from human need to communicate

existing structures - who don't solve things and like bad parent, just hard relationships / abusive / isolating / false)

If interested in the key words above, follow.
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Also just say hi or yes to what is interesting and I'll focus on that in the next audio.
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All the above represents what 'looks like' people are interested (usually in other people) but sometimes people only want to extract and not accept the human things or what more baggage they bring them (which in overall sense we can all help with solving or understanding and by not doing create / allow more sterile and cold places and even enable cultures like fascism from the lack of input from the many who say little).

So achieving something but not really is what happens often. And doing it in a way that is detrimental over time if it's less human along the way.

Also when it's not in your interest or their interest to trying to find a way, it is twice as bad because you're not even giving a chance to solving it (again along the way).

We know copying / following the structure(s) we're in doesn't work.

People still don't know about much and don't want to hear about it either!
(look at your parents as a quick test) ...which is ok until really it's not and society becomes one big cold ignorant mass.

It's actually doing the opposite from then on and that list above (which I consider as true / evident) starts to happen if you're not incorporating and incrementing those things wanted into you life personally at some level or all levels.

If interested follow / add comments.

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Other stuff I should cut off but you made it this far...
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I aim to speak for those unspoken people and unspoken feelings.
Might be left and right a bit, but you're here to balance also.

To say more unsaid things mostly because I calculate that protecting ourselves is of no benefit any more and just covering up into a turtle.

Your image or job etc is simply less worthy of time as time goes and being lost to the opposite things (i.e. not together <-- which is what we need more often).

So together, with people, something better will come, working on those human internal things more than externalised projects which forget the internal purification. Ultimately by-design just another money thing or less-human project is not going to work.

We are trying to get to a better alignment, and people need to be their own justice... and speak up for themself.

If that is not a different or real thing - let me know also.

With Thanks.

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