Bad Practices (Not replying to people) ... Better Practices (Trust IS possible) ...
TLDR - Inaction = Fascism
(soft or stronger type of fascism, all considered the same from #inaction #perspective)
Might get #deep than a 1-liner here but if you reply we can ALWAYS work this out.
Towards better practices... Constructive Critique below...
#Fediverse is generally diverse but has same traits as Twitter etc people online ... We are evolving but never taught HOW to trust and increase trust online... All you ever heard is do less of this, watch out for that...
Increasing trust (to avoid fascism / have stronger people is part of the 'product' of doing what I suggest should be normal / normalised - otherwise we fall fast into fascism or silent forms of the same).
There need for "fixing" / accepting change of our habits... is not easy but it's measurable... and does have steps to improve...
Improving communication else we die basically (!) alone or fall into more #technocracy / #plutocracy / fascism / anything almost.
Fascism can be the more-comfortable version AS WE HAVE IT NOW... SORRY!
Our bad habits = not talking / helping others is exactly what you are getting ! (not blaming you but you can help)
TLDR = Inaction = Fascism
Constructively "we" all are always are the MAIN problem (not just Trump Musk etc people pour time into... it's about the time the common folk people don't invest into themselves!... ⌚
Talking to each other properly / deeply).... gets us there way faster!
And that hurts to say and to accept perhaps as you or me (measurably) by what we are not doing also... so it needs two to tango and even 1 person to continually show up, for messaging properly to continue and have a place they can always go to (Fediverse let's say), In person can have it's place but it's not always suited for bashing our internal into something more cultivated when we do go out and not yelling at others (even the bad who still do near-0 and continue the bad).
So in taking more responsibility, for people messaging us, for our own #people etc - IT IS OUR INACTION in what we do bad - NOT JUST THE ACTIONS we do generally only for our direct #family)
THE INACTION IS ALSO EVIDENT / THE EVIDENCE, much like how our leaders don't ask testing questions. Not much different. We need to learn to use our own power and not "hope" in leaders always (we give power away a lot by doing that too). It's just us or just #ICE !
TLDR - WATCH OUT FOR THOSE THAT DON'T REPLY -
They can be wasting your time if people-progress interests you (better people as the resultant output at the end) not just improving tech or sciences or more memes - actually developing better people.
Those that don't want to look at themselves or talk outside the box are limited.,.
#FEDI IS PART OF THE SAME PROBLEM AS A POPULATION (NOT magically different people)
People here are NOT AS USEFUL AS THEY MAKE OUT or INTEND !!
They might not see how they are in victim-mode constantly pointing at the others and throwing stones and need to divert some energy into people not on TV etc. People nearer to being able to change (not professional #liers / #politicians )
(Not all #evil but some are really 3hiding from the conversations / just pumping their wares a bit selfishly). Need to listen to almost anyone really trying (check their account too and ask them) else it's rather much circular (doesn't spiral out and reach others).
When they are not responding (but continue to chat to to others online veraciously) that is SAYING SOMETHING too - despite people kindly asking, Even a polite no is better but NOTHING.
It's not just #Twitter - it's the general populations of people in cities that have this "ignore them" switch whenever they encounter a feeling a subject they are not sure about. Not to discuss it AT ALL or risk it with 1 person continents away!
People who seem wonderful as text and media- but don't have a way to talk.
Check my account - I've messaged / tested 100's (10's daily) and the best here... THANK YOU TO MANY (I CAN GIVE YOU A LIST)
BUT often it's a fail after first reply - you'd really be surprised... it's almost like your hero on TV and they turn out to be opposite.
No longer so many hero-people (aesthetically yes) and though it's natural and even very human to "meet the band" and be disappointed - it's I think also very deliberate to say the talk but not walk the walk (like trusting people more and slowly talking about everything to .heal it all). Just to start (no need go all-in).
Despite their skill level... it's almost proportional that more skill / higher techies and some educated seem to be inversely self-blocked or unkilled in socially raising the internet kids... because clever-but-unskilled-socially is worse than messaging people with less of qualified skill.
If they don't reply and don't say why - DON'T RELY ON THEM...
even though it's their right - be a bit wary when they claim to stand for stuff (don't write them off 100% but consider them a 75% potential waste of time). Without communication or trying you are of little use to others (that's a rule for life - though I don't mean people = 0). Just online memes IS NOT ALL OF IT ONLINE. Had to convert to positives and communicate.
Some part of the problem is similar to the other sides (like Fasism) where they are Silent / One-way messaging / Ignorant in smoe other way / not willing to answer / change - IT IS DELIBERATE.
A quick bad example are those in church that claim peace but can't sit down and have a debate (ok outside the church is the right place BUT asking them to sit down after is still hard for them).
THERE IS NO PEACE WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT HARD THINGS
AND YOU START TO FEED FASCISTS (OR BE ONE) EVEN IF IT'S A SOFT-TYPE / INDIRECT FORM OF FASCISM.
It's clever but not clever (because it's not genuine and even hiding things - (again quick-bad example - church and it's people hiding banks war on people / keeping people down / giving them debt they don't need but billionaires that are causing problems and harvest people by 'giving' them money).
Be a little wary (it's not 100% #FEDIVERSE but they are bad practising people (not brave enough / #newhere #introduction etc) but if they don't say why THAT IS BAD while - because you see them messaging fast other people - but not you...or after the first posts they cut off suddenly... BAD PRACTICE and even creates problems as we learn how to do this social - it's not easy but answer everyone (especially when you can see you don't have that much going on or need to make the process better else hop one legged).
Hashtag #FreeSchool - Get in contact and make Better People as the "product" & process !
Start somewhere / Pick something within this text to talk about...
