Should a person who has grown up with a phrase or term, not knowing it's bad connotations or origin, be "grandfathered in" and be allowed to say it once the history comes to light?
@levisan i find a distinct deficit of concern and sympathy for such people in myself, wishing them only flack until they grow a spine and thicker skin.
@jezza It really seems like so many people aren't willing to manage the flack!